Professional MC or Family Member - Polka Dot Wedding Featured Article
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Unique Instrumental Song Choices For Your Wedding Ceremony!
DJ:Plus! Entertainment is extremely honoured to have been approached to contribute to Polka Dot Wedding's "Music Issue", which was the theme for September 2021.
Below, for your convenience, I have provided a link to the article on Polka Dot Wedding. Enjoy!! [Click on Title or Image below to access article].
Unique Instrumental Song Choices For Your Wedding Ceremony!
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Why You Should Hire A Ceremony DJ For Your Wedding - Polka Dot Wedding Feature
DJ:Plus! Entertainment is extremely honoured to have been approached to contribute to Polka Dot Wedding's "Music Issue", which was the theme for September 2021.
Below, for your convenience, I have provided a link to the article on Polka Dot Wedding. Enjoy!! [Click on Title or Image below to access article].
Hey Mr DJ! : Why You Should Hire A Ceremony DJ For Your Wedding.
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DJ:Plus! Entertainment Featured on Polka Dot Wedding!
Polka Dot Wedding is an Australian based Wedding blog and has become renowned for "feel good" weddings.
Below, for your convenience, I have provided links to all the featured pieces to date on Polka Dot Wedding. Enjoy!! [Click on Title or Image to access article].
Nature Inspired Reception Songs To Set The Scene
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10 Perfect Nature Inspired Songs For Your Ceremony
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Why You Need To Consider Having A DJ Play During Wedding Cocktail Hour
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Emily & Mitch’s Fun, Rustic & Revved Up Wedding In Bathurst
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What Would They Know? Serge of DJ:Plus! Entertainment - Second Interview
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The Ultimate Beach Wedding Playlist
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“Hey Mr. DJ”- What Are The Ultimate Dance Floor Crowd Pleasers?
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How to Focus On The Fun At Your Wedding
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Magic Moments – A Bride’s Tears
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Pick Up The Phone and Call Your Wedding Vendors!
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Deciding When To End Your Reception
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What Would They Know? Serge of DJ:Plus! Entertainment - First Interview
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Unique Ways To Make Your Wedding Reception Fun
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Vendor’s Favourites – DJ:Plus! Entertainment
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Booking A DJ Or MC Solely On Price
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- is not able to deliver on your needs and wants due to inexperience,
- does the exact same thing at every wedding and no effort is made to uniquely personalise to each couple,
- is no longer in business (believe it or not, nearly every DJ or MC has received desperate calls because their entertainer just cancelled on them),
- just announces and has no knowledge as to the complete role of an MC or flow of a wedding,
- has no backup equipment or contingencies in place,
- never invests in themselves to improve their skills, and/or
- does not have insurance to cover you, the venue and themselves in the event of a mishap.
To Dance Or Not To Dance - Is Not The Question
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Why are they not willing to compromise? One of the major elements of any celebration is dancing. People just love to dance! In some cultures, it is ingrained in their heritage. Dancing is the single greatest opportunity guests will have to collectively express the happiness they hold for the couple and when they all join together on the dance floor and create an energy that can only be generated by those that are endeared by the couple, it is quite the moment, plus lots of fun!.
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Wedding Tip - Fun At Your Wedding (Part 3)
'Guests remember two things the most from weddings - the entertainment and the food. Be sure to send them home with great memories!' ~ Contemporary Bride
We hear this or similar statements so often, yet in a lot of cases, the entertainment is left to late in the wedding planning process and then couples are often compelled to make their decision based solely on cost. Great entertainment is very powerful. Think about it, even if the food, flowers and room are not quite perfect, this will be easily overlooked if the guests have been entertained and enjoyed themselves immensely. However, if the entertainment is bad, everyone will notice immediately and then even great food, lovely venue and beautiful flowers won't help much.
Allocate a higher priority to securing great entertainment early in your planning process and take as much time in selecting your entertainment, as you would put into searching for and selecting your photographer. If necessary, allow a larger portion of your budget to secure great entertainment.
Wedding Tip - Fun At Your Wedding (Part 2)
Be there! Sounds obvious, right? Unfortunately, this is not always the case.
I can't tell you how many times I have seen the bride and groom DISAPPEAR from their own wedding reception. Maybe they step outside for a cigarette, they decide to have a chat with guests in the hall or go off for photographs outside (which could have been taken earlier with a little planning).
What you need to understand is that when the bride or groom leaves their wedding celebration, it's like the air gets sucked out of the room. People are lost without their host and hostess, the stars of the show; they wander around aimlessly.
If you want your party to be lots of fun, STAY IN THE MIX!!
Wedding Tip - Fun At Your Wedding (Part 1)
If you want your wedding to be fun, YOU have to have fun. Your wedding is all about you. Your guests will be looking to you for guidance. You are the star of the show. If you aren't having a good time...chances are they won't, either.
On the other hand, if you're having the time of your life, your guests will be compelled to join you. If you want your guests on the dance floor...go to the dance floor. If you want your guests to stage dive (okay, maybe not)....but you get the idea, the party goes where you go, so lead by example.
Making sure you have fun at your own wedding is the best way to guarantee a FUNtastic celebration!
How Much Should Your Wedding DJ Cost?
The following post is reproduced with kind permission from the author, Stacie Tamaki*. I came across this post on Stacie's Blog, The Flirty Blog, and felt she gives a great insight into the things brides and grooms should be looking for when selecting DJ Entertainment for their wedding.
Please take the time to read this post as it gives much needed advice to brides and grooms and whilst Stacie is based in the United States, the points she makes are relevant and beneficial, not only to Australian brides and grooms, but to all couples planning a wedding no matter what part of the world they live in. Enjoy!
How Much Should Your Wedding DJ Cost?
Honestly? Probably more than you were planning to pay.
Why?
Because this isn't easy to say, I don't say it lightly: When it comes to Wedding DJ's, Brides and Grooms can and should expect more professionalism than the status quo that has been perpetuated as "acceptable" for far too long.
And that's not just my opinion. Over the years I've talked to brides, grooms, friends, other wedding professionals and even wedding DJ's and everyone seems to agree that the bar for Wedding DJ professionalism has been set (but even more oddly, accepted) at an often shockingly low level of expectation. In many cases the quality of the service provided falls well beneath the level of mediocrity. In my opinion that's not ok because the reputation of the entire DJ industry is damaged every time a DJ falls short. It's created an atmosphere of apathy where people in need of a DJ often hope to pay very little for one simply because they expect so little in return.

This post isn't about bashing what I consider to be average or stereotypical Wedding DJ's. For the most part I don't think there's anything particularly deceptive about how most of them run or market their companies. It's not a bait and switch scenario. Clients hire them with their eyes wide open, understanding the level of service they will receive. Some are willing to contract an average DJ because they think what they're seeing is "as good as it gets."
In some cases their expectations are so low they don't even try to find a qualified DJ or MC because they don't realise good DJ's exist. Recently I stumbled upon this blog post on Vegan Bride titled "Phil Birdsell Saved the Day!" written by her real life groom. It's a perfect example of what this article is all about. He and his bride weren't going to hire a Professional DJ... Until they met Phil Birdsell who completely transformed their perception of what a wedding DJ can be and exceeded all of their expectations.
I know a common misconception is that all DJ's are "cheesy" or as MC's they are "obnoxious" on the microphone. So the logic is: Why pay a lot for someone who is most likely going to annoy or disappoint you? For some companies those may be accurate descriptions of the types of services they provide. But I want to share with you today that not all DJ companies are like that...
Some are good.
Some are really good.
A select few are truly great.

CONSIDERATIONS
In my opinion the major factors that really matter when it comes to price are:
Budget
If a particular DJ doesn't fit your budget, keep looking for the most qualified one who does. You want to choose the right DJ to entrust your reception to: One who is going to try their hardest and do their best for you, not the first one you talk to or the most convenient one.
What is a DJ Worth?
The answer to this question varies based on your needs, expectations and priorities and the level of talent, skills and customer service a DJ is able to provide to you.
The funny thing (as in ironic not ha ha) is that I have worked in the wedding industry for 13 years and by far know more vendors who do not charge enough for their services than those who overcharge. So many people who work in the wedding industry do so because they love to make people happy, they're really not in it for the money. Some barely charge enough to break even on the cost of their labour, supplies and equipment. (When I was a custom bridal accessory designer I spent a lot of energy talking brides out of things they didn't need because in my opinion when it comes to wedding accessories, less is more. Less will always look classic and elegant while too much can look costumed or silly.)
Are DJ's Who Charge More Worth More?
They can be but it may take research on your part to verify if a company is charging what they're worth or if they are simply being opportunistic. The sad truth is that any company can "look" legitimate. All they have to do is build a nice looking website, print up some business cards and brochures and start advertising. They may even have some impressive credentials. But those things alone aren't a guarantee of anyone's current level of professionalism or your satisfaction as their client.
On the flip side of buyer beware is knowing that paying a premium price for something doesn't always mean it's overpriced. Whether or not something costs "too much" can be determined by the answer to this question: Is it worth what it costs? You can spend $5,000 dollars on something that's worth $10,000 and get a great deal. Or you can spend the same $5000 on something that's only worth $50 and be completely taken advantage of.
My point of view is: "Value is not relative to price but to the quality of the product or service you receive in return for your investment."
DJ as MC
And what about their Master of Ceremonies skills? Especially if you haven't ever seen them perform before I urge you not to just send out an email or chat on the phone before hiring a DJ because they will almost always be acting as your MC. You need to meet them in person. During your face to face consultation you can see their personality and even ask them to stand and do an introduction for you. When they do, watch for the following elements to see if they have mastered the MC skills needed to do a great job at your wedding:
- Facial expression and demeanour: Do they smile and look happy to be there?
- Body language: Do they slouch, rock or shift about nervously once they begin speaking? Or do they stand straight and tall with confidence?
- What are their speaking skills like? Do they talk so fast you can barely understand them? Or are they so timid you can't imagine them getting everyone out on the dance floor?
- Do they sound engaged, interested and excited to be there or is their voice flat as if they are reading a nutrition label on a box of breakfast cereal?
- What does their voice sound like? Do they speak with sincerity in their own voice or turn on a different affected performance voice once they're speaking into a microphone? (Or spoon or ballpoint pen, whatever is handy during your consultation.)

WHO DO YOU HIRE?
The first and most important question would be: Were you referred to a particular DJ by someone you know and trust, who hired them for an event and were thrilled by their service? Or were you impressed when you saw them successfully performing at another event? If your answer to either question is yes, that may be all you need to know when it comes to selecting who to hire.
If you're starting from scratch, here are some tips that may help you decide if a company is going to delight or disappoint you. If you can answer "yes" to all or most of the questions below you're definitely on the right track to finding a DJ of quality.
Does the DJ you are considering hiring:
- Have a Business License?
- Use a Written Contract? Do they guarantee the date, their arrival and departure time and the rate they are charging you?
- Have Quality Equipment?
- Are They Insured?
- Own a Vehicle Large Enough to Transport all of the Needed Equipment? Or will they forgo the correct equipment because they don't have the space to transport it?
- Come Prepared with Back Up Equipment?
- Dress Appropriately?
- Not Use Inappropriate Language?
- Not Drink Alcohol on the Job?
- Bring an Assistant When Necessary? i.e. not enough time allowed for set up before guests arrive or lots of stairs that their equipment must be carried up and down.
- Are they a member of an organisation that has real standards for business practices and ethics? A group where not just anyone can pay to be a member.
These are the things that you can't always discern from a website. These are the things a trusted testimonial from someone you know or an eyewitness account can confirm. Does the DJ you are considering hiring:
- Rely on Expertise not Ego?
- Deserve your trust?
- Have Solid MC Skills?
- Know how to Use Their Equipment Properly?
- Understand the Pacing and Timing of the Reception?
- Have a personality that reflects your own and/or the type of event you would like to host for your guests?
- Care About Your Wedding? Are they honoured to be a part of your special day or is it just a job to earn money?
To me there are no exceptions, every DJ is one or the other. It comes down to integrity and the choice they make when it comes to how do they approach your wedding day? You will find both types of DJ's within owner operated and multi-op companies. Professionalism is defined as competence and skill. The Professional understands and cares that your wedding is special and will use their competence and skills to help make it enjoyable and memorable. For the Stereotypical DJ's, the common perception is that they treat weddings as just another "gig" on their calendar.

Do you remember in the movie "My Best Friend's Wedding" when Julia Robert's self centred, no frills character makes the analogy that she is "Jell-O" and in the same breath labelled Cameron Diaz's sincere character as being "Creme Brulee?"
Professional DJ's are the Creme Brulee
They are honest, have integrity and treat being a DJ as an occupation, not a hobby. Professionals know that their business requires commitment, effort and integrity to be successful. They treat their clients with appreciation and respect because they care about the fact that weddings are special events.
I've noticed over the years that because they get to know their clients so well, many owner operated "Professional" vendors in all categories, often create friendships with their clients that may last for years or decades. That's a great thing!
A Professional DJ will incur many overhead expenses to maintain their company and the high level of service they provide to their clients. These costs have to be factored into the price they charge for their services to create a profit margin. The expenses may include but are not limited to:
- An annual business license
- Registering their business name (DBA) with the city
- Business Insurance
- Association Fees
- Computer and needed software
- Collateral/Printshop: Brochures, business cards, letterhead, etc.
- Website which includes: Design, development, monthly hosting fees, annual renewal for their domain name, periodic updates to their webmaster, etc.
- Continuing Education: Attending educational industry events, workshops, seminars and conferences
- Graphic Designer: Logo design & collateral development
- Equipment: Initial purchase, maintenance and repair
- Company Vehicle: A DJ has to own a vehicle large enough to transport their equipment to and from your event. Some own a dedicated vehicle and others purchase a larger personal vehicle than they actually need on a day to day basis simply to be able to transport their equipment on the weekends.
- Gas and mileage: Some events and consultations may entail a 4+ hour round trip to reach the wedding venue
- Vehicle maintenance and repair
- Paying assistants when required to do their job properly
- Advertising: Bridal shows, magazines, etc.
- Hiring a book keeper or accountant
Sometimes Jell-O does hit the spot, it can have its moment. But as Julia said in the movie: "Jell-O can NEVER be creme brulee!" The Stereotypical DJ's have made being average an accepted standard. Many often treat being a DJ like a hobby. Their most common offences, many of which you may have witnessed in person or have seen portrayed in movies or on TV that have helped to perpetuate the stereotype are: Being late, incorrectly pronouncing the bride or groom's name during the introductions, not knowing how to properly use their own equipment, not following the time-line for announcements, dressing or acting inappropriately; hitting on guests, drinking on the job, using inappropriate language or using inappropriate humour.
I know. I get and empathise that these are the reasons that some of you are considering making your own mixed music CD or play list and may forgo hiring a DJ. You just don't want to risk "that guy" showing up and ruining your wedding reception. But it doesn't have to be that way.
If you didn't before I hope you now realise that there are highly skilled, experienced, talented, caring Professional DJ's out there. They do exist!

So, How Much Should your Wedding DJ Cost?
Because different areas of the country have different price ranges, and different couples have different needs and budgets, it isn't possible for me to give you a definitive amount.
The best guidance I can offer is directly related to the following factors:
- Do you want your guests to be able to hear the ceremony and vows by using an additional sound system not provided by your venue?
- How important is the success of your reception to you and your fiancé? Do you want classy intros, someone who entertains (as opposed to interrupts) your guests, unobtrusive sound systems that won't look tacky in photos and great music & dancing for your reception? How things sound and how successful the dancing goes is especially important if you've hired a wedding videographer.
- If you haven't hired a professional wedding coordinator, do you need the DJ to help you create and execute your wedding day timeline to make sure all of the introductions and announcements are made at the appropriate times? Are you going to count on them to ensure that the photographer and videographer are in place for elements like the toasts, cake cutting and first dance?
- Do you want a DJ you can trust? That knowing they are there will give you peace of mind that everything is going to go smoothly and that their presence will positively impact the success of your wedding and reception?
- Have you ever hired the wrong person to do an important job? You didn't realise until things went wrong how important it was to you. Or maybe you were just too busy to be overly concerned and thought you could get by. Whatever the reason, regret basically sucks when you know you could have had a better outcome if you had done things differently.
I hope this post has explained why and that I've made the process of locating, recognising and qualifying a good DJ easier for you.
* Stacie Tamaki is a much sought after multi-talented individual from California in the United States. In addition to publishing The Flirty Blog (from which the above post originates) and The Flirty Guide, Stacie is also an internet go-to-gal, social media mentor, creative marketing consultant and branding re-developer. Her perspective helps guide fledgling entrepreneurs from making rookie mistakes while at the same time she can revitalise seasoned pros who may be a little or a lot behind the technology curve or are simply stuck in a rut. What is truly inspiring about Stacie is that despite the fact that she has had no formal training in business, fashion design, web design or web development she was able to create her very own flirty empire of things she loves to do!
Wedding Enquiries And Does Your DJ Really Care About You and Your Vision?
Hi
I am looking for a quote for DJ services for our wedding. Look forward to hearing from you.
Hi
Just after a rough price for a wedding DJ for 'specified month'- reception goes for 5 hours. Thanks
Hi there, was wondering if you could send me your wedding packages.
Or
Hello
I was hoping to obtain a quote for a MC/DJ for a wedding on 'specific date'.
It would appear, that the main criteria for these couple’s in making their wedding entertainment decision is price – no real issue with this as I fully appreciate individual circumstances may restrict the satisfaction of wants and desires. However I am a loss to understand why there is a general reluctance to wanting to speak with wedding entertainment providers. It is my belief that the best way of assessing the suitability of any wedding provider is to meet with them. Should this not be possible, an in-depth telephone conversation is recommended. Ideally, you would have both – an initial telephone conversation, followed up with a face to face meeting.
With limited information and not having at least spoken to the bride and/or groom, it is extremely difficult to provide a quotation let alone ascertain that I am able to meet the couple’s basic requirements and how this fits in with their wedding day vision. Accordingly, a polite response is sent requesting a contact telephone number and an appropriate time to call or giving them the option of calling me direct. In this way I am able to have a nice chat with them and determine exactly what is desired. Once I have established that I am able to meet (or exceed) all their needs and wants, I happily provide a quotation. Yet I am certain that these couples will receive quotations from other DJs without these DJs having any specific information about the wedding or understanding what their vision for the wedding is.
Of course, in many instances following my reply, I never hear back from the couple, having been discounted from further consideration because I have not provided a price and requesting the opportunity to speak with them to ascertain if I am the best match for their vision of the wedding. I have no issue with this whatsoever, but sometimes I wonder whether they got exactly what they actually needed and/or really wanted for their wedding.
It is unfortunate that the majority of replies received by these couples with a price will be from DJs that provide a very basic ‘cookie cutter’ type service. They simply turn up and push play, have had/will have very little communication with the couple, have not taken the time to find out exactly what is desired, nor are they prepared to put in the effort that is required to ensure their vision becomes a reality. Simply, price on its own will not convey if needs and wants can be met, nor will it provide details of inclusions. Of course no price (high, low or average) is a good price if the quality service needed is not received.
This leads to the question; Do they care enough about your wedding to put in the effort required to fulfill your vision?
It is a sad reality, that there are DJs in the profession simply because it is an easy way to make some quick money. Many see it as good money for little effort or the wedding as ‘just another gig’ and it is treated accordingly. Others truly appreciate and acknowledge the significance of the occasion, have a great passion for weddings, absolutely love what they do and will dedicate all the time and effort necessary to ensure that the wedding is nothing short of perfect.
So how can a couple discern between the two types of wedding DJs?, Well the initial thing to look for is their interest. When you first speak with DJs, pay close attention to the first few subjects that are raised. If money is one of them, it is possible that you may be speaking to a DJ that doesn't really care about you or your wedding and may just want to know what you can afford. If a DJ claims to be one of the cheapest, or offers to match/better any other quote you receive, you're almost certainly dealing with a DJ that is not concerned with anything but securing the booking. These DJs will need to cut corners and the resultant quality and service delivery will be negatively impacted.
What you want is for the DJ to ask about you and your wedding. Maybe he/she will offer congratulations on your engagement. They will certainly ask things like where you are getting married, how long you've known each other, how your envisioning your wedding and maybe how you and your fiancé met. If this happens, it may be time to finally let that smile emerge, because you may have just found yourself the right DJ!
The right DJ will also ask about your musical tastes, which is very important to know if they are going to perform successfully, yes? They may also offer some suggestions to assist in avoiding pitfalls as you go about organising your special day. Any experienced DJ that really is passionate about weddings will have more than a few bits of advice and tips to dispense to eager knowledge-seeking brides and grooms. And what's more, good DJs really like to share this knowledge without any guarantee that you'll hire them. This is a good thing; it shows that they genuinely care about you having the best wedding possible.
Now how would anybody be able to gauge any of these things if no conversation took place. Conversation will give you an initial feeling as to whether the DJ cares enough about your wedding to dedicate all the time and effort necessary to ensure that the wedding is nothing short of perfect. Follow this up with a face to face meeting to re-confirm your feelings and then decide. Entertainment is responsible for a large percentage of the overall success of a wedding day; those that do not wish to speak with or can’t be bothered speaking with their wedding entertainment are often left disappointed and usually end up with someone who also…can’t be bothered.
Negotiating With Wedding Professionals
What couples need to appreciate is that wedding professionals are in a service industry. Negotiating the price when buying a new car, for example, is an entirely different scenario. In this instance, you are simply asking the car dealer to lower their profit margin. They pay a certain amount for the vehicle, factor in any overheads and sell it for a higher price. The higher the price, the more money they make, and so the listed prices are typically inflated to leave room for negotiation. A wedding professional, however, is essentially selling themselves. They provide a service and base their pricing on the time, effort, and resources required to provide that service. By asking them to lower their price just because you are unable to afford it, you are in essence devaluing them, requesting them to provide a level of service and quality that is compromised. Most wedding professionals certainly do not appreciate this.
Another issue is that more often than not, couples have absolutely no idea the amount of work individual wedding professionals put into their wedding. All that is seen is the finished product. For example take a Floral Designer, couples don’t see the hours spent searching for component products to use, or the time spent designing, planning and calculating their customised wedding. They have no idea that it takes at least three-four hours, or more, just to unpack their flowers, cut them, and prepare them for working with them. They can’t comprehend the number of actual hours it requires to make all of those boutonnieres, corsages, bouquets, centrepieces or displays, and to add detail to them. Add all of those glass, cylinder vases and candle holders that have to be washed, boxed, loaded, unloaded, and unpacked on-site. All that is seen is the beautiful bouquet or wonderfully decorated room.
You really need to think of negotiation as a compromise: this is where both parties agree to give something up in order to get something in return. For example, should a certain photographer be out of your budget, you could ask for a reduced rate in exchange for less hours of coverage at the wedding, or fewer included photographic prints, or a smaller album. This way, you pay less and the photographer spends less time and/or resources on your event, and the quality of the service does not need to be compromised. Everybody wins - this is a partnership, and both the wedding professional and client need to feel that they are winners! This is important to keep in mind when negotiating with a wedding professional.
Price of a Disc Jockey – Understanding The Relationship Between Price, Quality and Service
Many couples want a cheap price, but the highest quality and best service for their wedding celebration. More often than not, for a cheap price the couple ends up with a cheap celebration and cheap quality which relates directly to the minimal fee paid for their chosen DJ. It is important to understand that when one of these three components is compromised, it inadvertently impacts one or both of the other two components in a negative way. Higher prices are almost always associated with quality – in the case of a DJ Entertainer this translates to extremely professional, polished performances, strong customer service efforts and great attention to detail. A DJ service that charges a higher fee for their talent and skills, usually has earned this right due to great public and industry respect gained over a long period, by continuously meeting and exceeding customer expectations.
Not surprisingly, most professional, reputable DJs will charge a higher fee for their services than a hobby or part-time DJ who is only looking to make a few extra dollars on the side. For the reasons explained above, you should fully question a DJ service that is low in cost...as most likely, quality and service will also be low. Accordingly, there is a very good chance you will be putting the success of your wedding celebration at risk in order to save a few dollars. Also, bear in mind all the time and money you have already invested in your wedding day and the impact the DJ/MC has on it’s success. If the venue was just average, the food was only ordinary, the speeches were far too long, but the entertainment was exceptional, your guests will still always remember your wedding as one of the best they have ever attended.
What Do Wedding Clients Really Need From Their Wedding Entertainment?
If you take some time to peruse the myriad of wedding DJ web sites, you may quickly draw the conclusion that what is needed for a great wedding reception is speakers and lighting equipment - as this is what is predominately promoted. Speakers and lights are really only tools which will assist the entertainer deliver their performance, not unlike a photographer in that a camera helps them capture the moment, however how it is captured has little to do with the camera itself and a lot to do with the photographer's artistic flair, creativity and talent.
Unfortunately, it has been my experience, that this leads most couples to think that music is all that is required for an enjoyable reception, if this were the case everybody would use some form of recorded music playback system. I have always believed that there is much more to wedding entertainment than just music - as music on its own cannot produce a memorable and fun wedding, yet there are many wedding entertainers which promote this misleading notion. Music is a very powerful tool, there is no denying this fact, used properly it can evoke feelings and stir emotions to create some wonderful memories, but this takes skill and talent to know what to play and precisely when to play it.
I feel that Brides & Grooms really need more than music from their Wedding Entertainment, here is a list of what I believe they really need:
1. someone who can deliver the kind of wedding reception they want,
2. ideas and advice for their planning process,
3. a team player who is comfortable taking charge,
4. a confident and eloquent spokesperson,
5. unique skills and talent to make the celebration happen,
6. a reliable professional business person with the right attitude, and lastly
7. great sounding music from professional grade equipment.
Look for these characteristics when researching your wedding entertainment - I guarantee that if you find a Wedding DJ who can provide these, your wedding will be transformed from just ordinary to absolutely extra-ordinary!
Questions For Brides To Ask Wedding DJ’s And Why.
This future bride was concerned that she, and other brides, would be at risk of offending other potential DJ entertainers, but as no indication had been given as to which questions were offensive, this bride was seeking my professional opinion. Personally and professionally, I did not find any of the questions offensive or silly and proceeded to provide detailed information on why a bride would ask each particular question, answers likely to be received and what the bride should be looking for in the answer to ensure they are able to find the perfect DJ for their wedding ceremony and/or reception. In my reply to the post, to give the bride some perspective, I also provided details of how DJ:Plus! Mobile Disco Entertainment conducts it's business in relation to these questions – this information has been removed from this article in order to avoid accusations of deliberate self promotion, which is not the aim of the article.
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• Are you insured?
All your wedding suppliers including the DJ should have public liability insurance. A significant number of wedding reception establishments will require that any contractor/vendor who enters their premises provide evidence of current public liability insurance. If it cannot be provided, that particular supplier will most likely refused access due to the potential risk it represents to the venue. If your venue has this requirement and you have engaged a supplier that does not have public liability insurance, you will be left with one of the two following options;
1) Source another supplier who has current liability insurance, or
2) Personally arrange public liability insurance cover for your selected supplier/s.
Unfortunately both these options are far from acceptable. Please let me explain further:
In the first option, you probably selected a particular supplier because there was a connection; they can deliver exactly what you are after and/or are within your budget. Because the supplier does not have insurance you are now placed in a situation where you have to repeat the search process to source a suitable replacement supplier – one that has current public liability insurance. Depending on when the venue informs you of this requirement (often the week of the event) there may not be sufficient time to secure an acceptable replacement; you may be left with little choice or no choice and is just an un-needed and un-necessary stress in the final days leading up to the wedding. Some venues may even insist on the supplier providing Risk Assessment Plans/Risk Management Plans and certification that all electrical equipment is PAT tested (tested as safe to use by licensed tester) in addition to Insurance Certificate of Currency.
Personally arranging public liability insurance cover in order to avoid the situation outlined in the previous point will mean you will be at the mercy of the insurance companies – think about it, you are a once off customer, requiring insurance for one night only and for one of the most important days of your entire life, Do you think the insurance company is going to be reasonable? – off course not, you will most certainly be charged a hefty premium, and the closer to the event, you can expect that the larger the premium will become.
How do you avoid this situation?
Ascertain if your venue has any of these type of restrictions/conditions prior to making any booking or before you commence engaging any contractor/s that will be required to be on the premises on, before or after the day of your reception.
Prior to booking your entertainment (or other supplier), ensure that they have appropriate insurance, you may pay a little more for a supplier that does, but this is an indication that the supplier is probably a professional and takes their role seriously – no true professional would be without liability insurance, it is just not worth the risk. Further, you may find that the more expensive supplier could ultimately be a less costly option than if you engaged a cheaper supplier and had to personally cover them for public liability insurance.
• Are you the DJ that we will have? Can we meet the DJ assigned?
It is important to ascertain who your DJ/Entertainer will be and if possible make time to meet with them PRIOR to booking. The purpose of this is so that you may assess the DJ with regards to how they present and whether they are likely to fit in with your requirements. During the meeting, the DJ should be asking you questions about what type of reception you are after, what styles of music you envisage is required and they should be providing worthwhile suggestions and advice. In addition, details of their service and how they propose to make your dreams become a reality should be explained. At the meeting pay attention to their manner, how they are dressed, how they answer your questions, how passionate they appear about what they do, their enthusiasm – as these things will be a good indication as to the type of service you can expect to receive, the dedication the DJ has to their profession and care they will ultimately take with your reception.
Meeting a DJ that works for a larger DJ Agency (Multi-operator DJ Service with more than one DJ) will be near to impossible as these types of providers generally have very high staff turnover and you will most likely only be able to have contact with the DJ allocated to your reception in the week leading up to your event.
• Can we have a do not play list?
Can be an issue as there may be some particular songs or styles of music which due to personal preferences you may not wish played at your reception, even if requested by one of your guests. In addition, there may be particular songs which could bring back bad memories and/or potentially upset either you or your new spouse on the day, any such songs should be at the top of the Do Not Play list. When specifying styles of music not to be played, it is important to not exclude styles which have tremendous mass appeal, even though they may not align with your personal musical preferences. If these styles are excluded, music which will appeal to the majority of your guests will not be played with the potential result that your guests may leave early as they are not enjoying the evening. A good professional DJ will be able to find a balance between meeting your musical requirements and satisfying the majority of your guests.
• Can you act as master of ceremonies?
Having your DJ act as master of ceremonies (MC) can be a cost effective way of covering this role – provided your DJ knows proper wedding protocol, is experienced in public speaking and guiding and directing the flow of events at your reception.
When you ask this question, you will receive one of the following answers;
No – which means the DJ does not have the necessary experience to perform this role and/or the confidence to speak in public, wedding protocol knowledge, etc.
Yes, however there will be an additional cost for this service - It will be up to you to make sure the DJ has the experience to adequately perform this role however.
Yes – the DJ is more than happy to carry out this function inclusive of the agreed fee. Again, make sure the DJ has the necessary experience to perform this role and effectively act as your spokesperson
No, however a separate professional MC for an additional cost can be provided- You are now hiring two suppliers through the one source and largely diminishes any cost effectiveness to be gained in asking your DJ to also perform MC duties.
• Can you cue songs to play at a certain part?
Some couples wish to have a song played from some specific point or just a certain segment of a particular song. In most cases this should be possible without any problem; in some instances however, it may be difficult to achieve for valid reasons. The type of media your DJ uses may also impact the ability to effectively meet your requirements in this regard.
It really depends on what is required and needs to be discussed in detail on a case by case basis.
• Do you charge for travel?
DJ’s should not charge an additional fee for travel within the metropolitan area of the locality that they service. Obviously if a client wishes to engage a DJ to perform outside the metropolitan area serviced, then charges may apply – you will appreciate that there is additional time required to get to and from the venue & additional fuel for which the DJ will need to be compensated. Subject to distance and finishing times there may also be a necessity to provide overnight accommodation and possibly meals.
• Do you have a Demo for our consideration?
The problem with any demo is that, with regards to a DJ, it may not be representative of what you desire and wish played at YOUR wedding. It may contain all the types of music or styles which may not be suitable for your event, but that does not mean that a particular DJ cannot cater to your requirements. The other thing to keep in mind is, no one will ever distribute a bad demo and how do you ascertain that it was actually produced by the particular DJ you are considering and/or been edited to remove undesirable elements?
Video/DVD material is very much like a demo CD. If the DJ has had footage edited to only show “highlights” of the best parts of any or various performance/s, then they will appear at their very best throughout the whole presentation and this may not be truly representative of an actual performance.
Video/DVD material can be useful if you have the opportunity to view un-edited raw footage of a particular individual DJ’s performance at an event where they are executing a multitude of formalities expected from a professional entertainer.
• Do you have a list of references?
References can be used to independently verify the type of service that the DJ provides. These should only be used as a guide as obviously no DJ, or any other supplier for that matter, will show you or supply you with names of referees that will not give them a less than glowing review. It may also be somewhat difficult to determine the authenticity of the reference/referee.
• Do you have a list of selections we can choose from? How long is it?
Professional DJ’s have their music list cataloged in order that they can easily locate a particular selection when required. This being the case, it should not be a problem to provide a listing for their clients. The larger the music library, the more choice you will have and the more likely that the DJ will have your special song/s. Unfortunately of course, no DJ can have every song – what is more important is that they have a good selection covering a variety of styles that will be able to please most crowds. Having 30,000 tracks of heavy metal will give you great choice if you like this genre, however it will be unlikely that any of it would please your guests.
• Do you have an assistant?
The reason you may wish to ascertain this information is that there is some comfort to be gained in knowing if the DJ has an assistant - it will allow quicker set-up, allow someone to operate the equipment whilst the DJ has a toilet break or is performing certain other formalities.
Most professional DJ’s do not have an assistant; in the event that they do, it should never be more than one. Assistants may also mean that you will incur indirect added costs in the provision of a meal and/or refreshments.
• Do you provide a contract guaranteeing your services?
This question ties in somewhat with the earlier question of who will be performing at the event. It is extremely important that you always obtain a contract which specifies all the key elements of the event such as date, the name of the DJ who will be performing, start time, end time, performance fee, payment terms, overtime charges, travel expenses (if any), venue details, customer details, cancellation details and any other terms and conditions. Some DJ’s will offer a specific guarantee – bear in mind that if they have a contract they are in fact guaranteeing the provision of the service (although most will exclude “acts of god” and the like).
• Do you provide a microphone for speeches?
The DJ should provide at minimum a corded microphone to be used for any announcements and the speeches inclusive of the hire fee. Ideally they will provide a UHF cordless microphone. This allows flexibility to move around and not be restricted in any way by the length of the microphone cord. In addition a microphone cord strung out across the floor does not appeal visually and may represent a potential hazard. Some DJ’s will charge an additional fee for the use of a microphone and/or cordless microphone.
• Do you provide lighting effects, smoke/bubble machines?
Lighting effects, smoke and bubble machines add atmosphere, enhance the mood, add excitement and will assist in enticing your guests onto the dance floor. Most DJ’s will provide, at the very least, very basic lighting effects consisting of a few flashing coloured globes. Others will provide more elaborate setups up to and turning your venue into a nightclub if you wish. Smoke machines enhance the effect of the lighting as the beams reflect the smoke particles creating a visually pleasing and exciting effect. Unfortunately, unless your venue is able to isolate any smoke detectors, your DJ will not be able to use a smoke machine. Older venues or heritage listed venues do not necessarily have smoke detectors and smoke machines may be able to be used in these venues. With regards to bubble machines, they can provide a wonderful effect especially during the bridal entry, cake cutting or bridal waltz. The downside is that they can cause your floor to become slippery and may be the cause of a serious accident – so some venues will not permit use of them.
• Do you require a deposit?
A professional DJ will require a deposit in order to confirm the booking. You will appreciate that some commitment is required on your behalf to indicate that you wish to proceed with the booking. The payment of a deposit confirms to the supplier that your intentions are genuine. Some DJ’s will not require deposits, but be warned that some of these DJ’s will cancel bookings because they can secure a higher rate for the same date. A professional DJ will supply a contract and require payment of a deposit.
• Do you require a parking space?
Providing a parking space for your DJ or entertainer will facilitate the load in and load out of the equipment required for your reception. Some venues will allocate a parking spot for the entertainment, others are not as considerate. It is recommended that if at all possible, you provide a parking spot, it will make your DJ/Entertainers life easier and will not be the cause of angst prior to the reception even starting – which will undoubtedly affect the performance.
• Do you take and play requests?
Most DJ’s will take and play requests, this allows all guests to have the opportunity to ask for their favourite song. You can instruct the DJ not to take requests if you wish, however this may upset some of your guests. If your DJ is taking requests ensure that they vet the requests for appropriateness of style and whether the song requested may contain lyrics which could be considered offensive by other guests.
• Have you performed at our location before?
Finding out if the DJ has performed at the location is important in that they are already familiar with the facility and may have a relationship with the catering staff which will assist in your event running a lot smoother. However, just because they have never performed at that venue previously, does not mean that there will potentially be problems at your reception. If the DJ takes all the right steps and adequately prepares, these will certainly be avoided.
• How do you get the guests up and dancing?
A good DJ will be able to read the crowd and be able to play appropriate music which will entice people on the dance floor, once the dance floor is full, a professional experienced DJ should be able to keep them dancing.
• How do you require payment?
This should be specified in the booking confirmation and also clearly explained to you when you are making your initial enquiries. Payment for most professionals will consist of a deposit to confirm the booking with the balance payable either just before the event or on the day of the event. The DJ should also specify in what form the payment will be accepted i.e. Cheque, Money Order, Credit Card, Cash Only, Direct Deposit, etc.
If you have your heart set on a certain supplier who has impressed you immensely, but may be a little outside your budget, speak to them, there may be some arrangement which could be mutually agreed to allow for a series of regular payments over an agreed time frame that will progressively cover the fee. In this way you can have a high grade, experienced supplier and you can spread the burden of the cost over time. True professionals will not compromise on price, they have certain standards to maintain and any compromise on price will ultimately be reflected in a lower standard of service provided.
• How long for and where do you take a dinner break?
Under no circumstances should a DJ eat any provided meal at the console. It is totally unprofessional, visually unattractive and bad etiquette. A meal break, as long as it in no way interferes with scheduled proceedings, should be for no longer than it takes to eat the meal (10-15 minutes) and the meal should be consumed in some other area away from the reception. Some couples wish their suppliers to feel like guests and go to the extent of provide seating with the guests for the photographer, videographer and entertainers – if you wish to do this, ensure that they do not abuse your hospitality, they should only be seated for the meal. Also under no circumstances should your suppliers be consuming alcoholic beverages.
• How long have you been in business?
Ascertaining how long your DJ has been in business will give a good indication as to their experience, commitment to their profession and that they are just not in the business for a “quick buck”. The greater the experience the more benefit to you as they will have encountered many, many situations and can advise you and have the know-how on how to avoid actual and potential undesirable situations. Of course you will need to analyse the response to this question, as some operators will say 20 years experience, however this may be that there a five DJ’s and collectively they have 20 years experience yet individually they may have four or less.
• How much for overtime?
It is important to ascertain exactly how much it will cost if you and your guests are having such a great time and, venue permitting, you wish to extend for longer than originally anticipated. It is also vital that these charges are detailed in the booking confirmation. Some not so professional operators will impose a hefty premium to extend beyond the agreed finish time and essentially hold you to ransom – this is why it is essential that these rates are agreed and documented in advance.
• Is your equipment up to date? Is backup available? Is it their own equipment?
These questions can be important, but it is essential that you do not get too caught up in equipment, as the DJ with the oldest equipment can sometimes give a better performance than the DJ with the best and latest equipment. If you put in the time and effort in finding your Wedding DJ, you should be able to find the DJ with the best/very latest equipment and will also deliver the best possible performance. Having the latest equipment also minimises the risk of failure, older equipment can, due to age, be prone to developing problems.
This conveniently leads to the next part of the question, should a failure occur, the DJ should have back-up equipment available on-site so that your reception is not ruined. Having back-up equipment available at another location is not acceptable as the time required to retrieve the equipment or arrange for it to be delivered would be sufficient enough to disrupt the flow and mood of your reception. It really needs to be on site so the time required to rectify any problem is kept to the absolute minimal or not noticed at all by you or your guests.
You will of course appreciate that no DJ can carry a complete duplicate system to every event, so when asking this question make sure the explanations given are feasible and would cover any major failure.
Asking if the equipment is actually owned by the DJ can give you some insight into the commitment they have towards their profession. If a DJ makes a significant investment in quality equipment, this is generally an indication that they are serious about what they are doing and it is just not a hobby. Unfortunately of course, technology has meant that entry level DJ gear can be purchased quite cheaply these days and just about any body can call themselves a DJ – again this is why you need to ask lots of questions. Agency DJ’s are not normally permitted to own equipment and are required to use equipment supplied by the agency, which does not normally matter to the DJ that works for these agencies as they are usually hobby DJ’s or just starting out and do not have the funds to purchase equipment. This equipment used by agency type DJ’s tends to be at the lower end of the quality scale and is reflected in their lower price point.
• What are your set-up time and requirements? E.g. Does it require a certain power wattage? Do you do a sound check before hand?
The DJ should make contact with the venue directly to ascertain when they are able to gain access to the room on the day of the event and any restrictions imposed by the venue. Depending on the amount of equipment and the service provided, a differing amount of time will be required for set-up. Typically, a DJ should allow at the very minimum an hour for set-up. The amount of space required, will also vary from DJ to DJ depending on equipment. Most DJ’s should however be able to set up in an area of around 4 metres by 3 metres. The majority of DJ’s will require a 240 Volt, 50hertz, 10amp electrical power supply. Where normal power supplies are not available, a safe, properly supervised generating system operated by qualified persons would be required. It would be very rare for a DJ to require three phase power. All DJ’s should carry out a sound check prior to the commencement of the event. The will allow setting of appropriate sound levels, adjustment of tone, compensation for the particular nuances of the room and elimination of feedback from the microphone. If a DJ does not carry out a thorough sound check they are compromising on providing the very best sound from their equipment.
• What happens if you are ill?
This is a good question as it allows to ascertain what will happen if the DJ you have engaged in unable to perform due to ill health. If you have engaged an agency DJ, the agency will just substitute another DJ on their books for your event. Beware however, that during peak periods even the agency DJ’s tend to be booked out and if the DJ becomes ill and is unable to perform during this time, you may find that even the agency cannot provide a replacement DJ. Sickness tends to be more of an issue if you engage a sole trader and if they have no contingency plans in place to cover such situations. If you are engaging a sole trader make sure you find out exactly what plans they have to cover this type of situation should it arise.
• What is your attire for the event?
Another important question; The majority of weddings are formal events and as such the DJ should be dressed in a manner which compliments the event. For weddings, unless it is a very casual affair, I feel the DJ should wear a suit or at minimum jacket & tie. You certainly do not want your DJ to turn up dressed in jeans and T-shirt. Insist your DJ wears a suit and have it noted in the contract.
• What is your cancellation policy?
Sometimes the unexpected can occur and for some reason you may need to cancel. If this were to occur, you need to know what the procedure is and what liability you will have with the DJ. All professional DJ’s will have a cancellation policy. You will understand that weddings do tend to book a fair way in advance and once a DJ has booked that event, they are rejecting any further work for that date. Depending on how far before the event you cancel, you may be liable for an administration fee, a percentage of the full fee or the entire fee. All these cancellation terms must be detailed in the booking agreement.
• What is the best way to contact you? What is the maximum time you will take to reply?
It is always reassuring when someone you contact gets back to you within a reasonable timeframe. In today’s technological age there are many methods to contact your DJ, old fashioned landline, mobile telephone, email and SMS are the most common methods. Your enquiries should be answered within 24hrs. However if you yourself cannot be contacted when the DJ is trying to respond, you really need to allow more time. Please also allow more time if contact is made on the weekend as the DJ is usually working and cannot respond as quickly due to being focussed on the weddings for that weekend.
• Can we watch you perform at another wedding?
You can certainly ask however in my view the answer the DJ should give is NO! Why? Weddings are a private event. Firstly consider if you would like strangers at your wedding checking out the DJ or lurking at the door, my guess is that you would not. Secondly, it is my view that the DJ should be entirely focused on your wedding and not be distracted by trying to impress potential future customers - they should be directing their energy in making your wedding the best wedding reception ever!
• Do you adjust the volume to suit the atmosphere?
A professional DJ with professional sound equipment and experience in performing at weddings will easily be able to adjust the volume of the music to suit the particular moment. Typically, during pre-dinner drinks and dinner, the volume should be at a level where guests can easily converse, yet if they wish to listen to the music, the music will be at a volume which can also be heard. During dancing, the volume will normally be increased, but not to a level, that is so loud, that guests who wish to converse are unable to do so without yelling. The DJ should be willing to readily adjust the volume if you or your guests consider it at an inappropriate level.
• Do you charge extra to find and play our song if you don’t have it already?
Some DJ’s will go to the effort of sourcing any key songs that you wish that is not part of their current music library as part of the service they provide, without any additional cost. These DJ’s understand the significance this particular song has in your life, the special meaning and emotional bond that it holds. They understand that playing the song at the right time, it will enhance the moment, evoke sentiment and create memories which will last forever. On the other hand there are some DJ’s that will not go to any effort to source a special song for you.
It is also important to understand that at times a song is unable to be sourced due to the fact that it has either been deleted and no longer available, is an obscure track of some obscure album or other very valid reasons. At other times you may find that the song may have only been available on a limited edition disc issued with another album and is no longer readily available or is available, but at an exorbitant, unjustifiable cost due to its rarity. Of course this does not necessarily mean that you cannot have your song, if you have a copy, most DJ’s will be only too happy for you to bring it along and play it for you at the appropriate time.
• Where do you get your music?
The answer you receive to this question can give an insight into the ethics and professionalism of the DJ. If the answer is “from the internet”, this can only mean that either it is purchased of a legal music site or downloaded illegally using file sharing software. Most, of course will never openly admit that they download music illegally, they will probably say that they purchase music from the internet – be aware that in the main, music obtained from the internet is a compressed file, which means it has had elements of the song stripped out to reduce the file size. Whilst this compressed music may sound of an acceptable quality on an Ipod or MP3 player, when amplified at several hundred watts, you will most probably find that the quality has been compromised somewhat. This may be more evident if the DJ uses very high grade equipment.
There are a number of industry services which provide regular legal compilations (in both electronic and CD format) for disc jockeys, radio stations, etc. This is an easy way for a DJ to keep up to date with the latest music. Whilst the frequency of new material varies from service to service, a subscription to one of these trade specific services would indicate a commitment to the maintenance of their music library with the latest releases.


































